I can't believe 2 months has gone by so fast.  Things are stable as far as mom is concerned, nothing big happening - but more occurrences of bowel incontinence.  I am now able to change her when necessary without gagging!  She still says "mumma" a lot and if I am hugging her she will cry and say "mumma" but she is easily redirected from crying.  Lots of time when I visit I'll read her a book, but she loves to cuddle too. 
The home is putting in a new floor on the porch and next week they are repaving the parking lot, so it's nice to see they do put money back into the facility. 
The holidays - I'm not sure how we are going to handle them, seeing as I'm not having anything to do with my sister-in-law.  Last year they had mom and me over there for Thanksgiving and Christmas (but as usual I was the only person tending to her while they talked on the phone and played video games), so I can easily see my brother saying they aren't going to have her over there.  I can spend some time with her at the home, and probably will take her out for a long ride if they don't do anything with her.

Hope everybody is doing okay and that things are as close to quiet as possible!  It won't be another 2 months before I come back with another post!