update on mom: On Jan 3 2010 I found my mom on the floor of the bedroom. Called 911 off to hospital, thought her hip was broke turned out it was'nt but had a stroke. her mind seems alot worse now still not up walking yet its been three weeks, dr wants her to go to nursing home from there which i know is for the best, so we will wait in hospital until bed comes up which will be 2-3 months. I felt a little relief now that shes there knowing shes not alone. but i still dread the day for the nursting home , now i have to clean out her apt. which i have a had time dealing with that. You would think after swollening 3 toonies thing they where pills they would of done something a few months ago?????