Mary Gazetas
Richmond
BC
Mary Gazetas
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Caregiver to my spouse
2007
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Saturday, April 10 2010
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We wanted to keep Easter simple for my husband and not make mistakes like we did at Christmas in terms of him appreciating what it was all about. This time the idea was we had no expectations as to if he would have a glimmer of what Easter was all about. He had no idea what an Easter egg was. Which was just fine. I was happy the residence didn't over do Easter as they tend to really decorate the place for events like Thanksgiving, Halloween, Christmas, Valentine's and where I live, which is near Vancouver BC - the 2010 Winter Olympics. But I have to tell you one Olympics story. I was a torch bearer! And it was very neat that I could bring the torch into the res and many people got to hold it and have their pictures taken. SO many residents and staff did that there is no longer any soot left on the white shiny torch! And the residence brought six of them down in a bus to see me on my route. Yeah those rehab staff. On Good Friday where I live - we had this huge scary wind storm so I didn't take him outside that day. Instead I made tea in his room and we shared some fruit & cookies. I asked him what he might like me to bring him from home for Easter. He said, " a 70." Wasn't too sure what he meant. I pointed at a picture of him on his wall. He told me that was "the bread man." On Easter morning I took in a few chocolates and a hydrangea plant. Myself, my son Michael and his wife, Michelle, we sat outside on a porch in the sun (so nice!) We chatted softly. My husband loved his pieces of orange chocolate and a double starbucks latte. We didn't stay too too long as long visits tire him. We chatted with one of his best care-ades, Shauna who came out to join us and we told stories. I was kinda glad Easter came and went. Last Easter, when he and I visited my sister and her family on Vancouver Island for the special weekend he found everything so confusing and strange it was a "nightmare" and I had to bail out of their Easter plans and bring him back home on Easter morning. At least this year he was "safe" and there was zip pressure from me to expect him to understand what Easter was. Every day this week we've nibbled a little bit of his chocolate rabbit. Just a taste - as we now move nice & slow into April. I'm now doing our income tax! that will be another blog. Not now but in a few days or so.
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Tuesday, March 30 2010
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Creating a special space with objects from home plus other items to give life to an institutional room that is so empty at first can be done. In my c...

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Thursday, March 25 2010
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Looking back to a few years ago there were hints and clues at that time I wasn't aware of. I knew something wasn't quite right. The first clues were ...

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Wednesday, March 24 2010
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My husband was a university teacher all his life and an author too. Reading and writing was a huge part of his life. It was very sad when he no longer...

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Thursday, March 18 2010
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Always so nice when it is sunny and warm when I visited my husband this morning. He's been in an extended care facility since last July. What happene...

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